What do you really want?

We are often so busy in our lives that we never take a step back to work out whether we're living the life we really want. You might be the CEO creating strategic plans for your company, but never have worked out a strategic plan for yourself.  What is your vision for your future? Or put simply, 'What do you want?' 

This can be one of the hardest questions to answer truthfully. Most of us think we want more money, maybe win the lottery, buy a bigger house, go on exotic holidays, but if we really stop and think about what makes us feel fulfilled and content, the chances are it's none of those things. If you've never stopped to think about that question then the chances are your life is a muddle of other people's expectations, perhaps your parents or teachers thought accountancy was a fine career or maybe you married your partner because your friends were getting married.

It's time to sit down and really work out what you want from life. What will make you happy and fulfilled? Only when you've worked out where you want to go can you start planning your journey.

Working out what's important - it's time to get acquainted with your values. You can start now by deciding what's the most important thing to you. Then ask yourself what that thing gives you? You might come up with something like 'money because it gives me security.' When you have a list of 5 or 6 you can then prioritise them to clarify which things are more important to you than others. For some people this process can be quite simple but for many of us it can get complicated especially if we have conflicting values. If you're struggling with this exercise then book a session so I can help you work out what's important to you so you can be sure you're headed in the right direction.

Setting goals  - when you've worked out what's important then you can start creating your goals. Creative visualisation is a powerful tool when goal setting. Using a light trance we can take you into possible futures and bring back valuable insights about what those futures might hold for you. You may be surprised to find that your subconscious thoughts and feelings are quite different from those you are consciously aware of. Uncovering conflicts now means you can be assured you're travelling on the right path.

Creating a plan -  now you know where you're going we can work out the best way for you to get there! Using a light trance state we can uncover insights on how your goals might be achieved. The subconscious mind is very resourceful and has access to memories which may be hidden to your conscious mind and, with your inner critic held at bay, you may discover exciting new solutions to achieving your dreams!